Stressing out for the Holidays

I am sure I am not the only one but I always stress during the holidays :) This years a little different since we are going to MS. i have to get the house done , get the kids packed and the car packed for the trip. I wish my husband would help but if its not done my way we just but heads so i'd rather do it myself. So im frantically running around trying to do everything my help but going crazy. Tomorrows already Monday and our journey starts Tuesday. We have decided we are taking my car since My hubby's truck is going in to be fixed . I am not sure how i am going to pack the car for all 5 of us. My trunk is so small :(. I have do much to do so little time.
I took poor little Diana to the hospital this am. She went to the doctors early this week. They tested her for the RSV virus and said if she is positive we will call you if not then you will not hear from us. Well she has gotten worse and worse and since the doctors had not called I figured it was a bad cold. Well this morning they informed me that the test results came back positive. So there we sat for 3 hours with breathing treatments ect. Poor little girl. Needless to say the office will get a nasty call from me tomorrow. We now know why she has been struggling to breath. We hope she is ok to go to MS if not we will stay here.
so then I stress about getting Abby. MY husband is not always the best on communication. I asked him today if he had communicated with his ex about the pick up and he was like. UM I think i did. OK now did you or did you not. I'm in full mode now so i need straight answers. Then i was like ok then whens pick up . He hates when you question him so he was like " Like every other time". Now i was pretty sure that it was an hour later than usual but not sure and since I'm not sure he really knows himself i had to email Abby's mom to find out. I hate to bother her but don't want to keep her waiting and I don't want to be late myself plus i have my daycare now and I have to get my back up sitter here at the right time.
I know i just have to sit back and breath but right now I cant :) Laundry is done time to work again .
It will be nice finally when thanksgiving is here to relax:)