Tuesday, December 2, 2008

My Crazy Hubby


I love my crazy husband. There are times I just sit back and laugh at him all day. A few weeks back we were in our local wal mart. There was a Taylor Swift T-shirt hanging on the rack. He looks at is as we walked by and said I'm going to have to get me one of those. I was like what as I was looking around . He said that Taylor Swift shirt. I thought he was joking so i Laughed at him. I said baby you would look so good in that. So this weekend We were in Mississippi. It was hot and of course I did not pack any t-shirts. I did not want to spend a bunch of money on clothes so I went to the clearance rack. the only thing they had in a size Sm was Of course the Taylor Swift shirt. Go figure. lol. So I brought it home. I told him about it and he said i cant believe you bought that. I never did put it on. Well today during nap times i decided to put it on while i worked out. I thought My husband was going to fall out. He was like Step back and let me take a good look. He said are you going to shrink it a little bit? I was like um i hope not. He then proceeds to walk around the house making comments on how sexy I looked. He then came over gave me a big kiss and said I love it you look So country. Country??? Is that All it takes. A Taylor Swift t shirt :) well i guess we are going out to by me more .lol. Hes always trying to country me . I love my husband hes so crazy.

Things that Annoy Me

There are a few things that annoy me lately.

# 1 We are constantly getting flyer's and emails about buying Direct TV. WHY?? We already have it . Stop bugging us. I mean aren't they losing money in advertisement. I get at least 2 emails a day and 1 flyer in the mail .

#2 The cashiers at the grocery store. Since when did they stop talking. I hate to get up to the register and they say nothing.
# 3 The kids at the bus stop with the pants around the ankles. Try explaining that to your 5 year old. He says You need a belt. They just glare at him and he doesn't understand why
# 4 Why am I getting buy a Obama coin every day in my email. How did they get my email
# 5 The Sales people who come to your door after its dark outside.
#6 Solicitors who keep calling you . You answer and there is on one there. Finally after days of this you answer and someone is on the other end you say do not call me anymore. And a day later the cycle starts over again. Not to top it off Didn't we sign up for no solicitor calls.

Texas Law it surprised me

I am amazed everyday on how much I think i know but I really don't. Yes honey I did admit to that one:). Recently we have been interviewing some lawyers to take a case that we are wanting handled. Its amazing on what the lawyers have told us. Things we thought we knew or thought we were helpless on we really were not. Its a relief to know we were wrong and that we have a side. If we only knew now what we didn't a year ago we would have saved ourselves some emotional peace and some money . This am we had a interview with an awesome attorney who gave us some great information and I think my husband is on cloud nine. In his original divorce we tried to have his attorney bring up a temp order that originated out of CO when his DV to his ex first started. Its stated that She could not relocate the child out of CO where the child was residing at the time with out my hubby's consent or the courts ect. Well she was and that was that. My husbands now ex attorney did not do such a great job and getting a handle on that for credibility reasons. We found out today that ( in some round about way) they can still have a way with that original paperwork stating that she was not to be removed from that state. :) Some type of legal garb that We had to explain to us a few times but that's ok. Then came the matter of the moving from here to there and getting the child and changing meeting points. Comes to find out that actually since the mother is the one whom had custody and moved she would be the one responsible for all transportation . That is according to a law to be enforced back in the court. I guess its some Texas law. If the custody parent moves its their responsibility to provide all transportation. What a relief that was. We do not mind meeting half ways but when mommy keeps moving farther and farther its hard. We now miss our 4 day weekend that we were able to being to use . We were excited for jan , feb, then spring break in march then a 4 day in April.
Now its all gone. Also we found out with the distance the airplane ride we were seeking is enforceable. Cost is suppose to be on the custodial parent which i don't really agree on in think it should be 50/50. I mean its only fair. That's an expensive thing.
I don't know we learned a lot today about the laws in Texas. I always thought i was up on things but it proved me wrong. :)
I think i need to go into law to figure everything out that I want to :)

Dreaming of White Christmas

Its finally getting closer and closer. Grandma has been sending pictures of their tree, the lights and the snow. We are all so very excited. My hubby finally got the all clear to come with us. We all cant wait. He even started to talk about packing. That usually does not happen for him until 2 hours before we leave to go anywhere :). Hes excited. My brother is coming home too and my sister will be there. It will finally to great to have us all there together. Mom talked about getting a family photo organized. That would be great. ( now i can stress about what to put the kids in ) :) .
My hubby is already talking about taking Diana in the snow. We will have to get the kids some boots and deano some snow pants. Diana has her snowsuit all ready to go :). I am so excited.
I have this awesome video I would love to post up there but my Husband would get me. He did not grow up celebrating Christmas . There was no tree , no presents, non of that. While I have been celebrating forever its strange for me. The past few years I Have gotten the house all done up and he wanted to part of it. He didn't even want a tree but we had a small tiny one. So this year Knowing we would not be home I still wanted a tree. I just got a dainty 6.5 ft artificial tree pre lit and got a few bulbs. Just enough for us. Last night the kids were putting the bulbs up. I caught out of the corner of my eye my husband partaking in this event. LOL. I got just a small clip of him standing at the tree putting a bulb up. Once he saw me he walked away saying oh no your not going to get me and walked away from the tree. He never went back. LOL you bet that video went out to my brother. A few years a go during Gil's last tour they boys decorated their bunks with Christmas decorations. Except for Gil. My brother just could not get it why Gil would not decorate his so Dean ( my brother) decorated gil's bunk. Dean tells the story and how mad Gil got ect ect. Dean has always called his scrooge. :) So last night the video was perfect. I sent it to dean to let him know. Gils come a long way :) He loved the video of course and then had to reminisce of their time in Iraq :)

Thanksgiving in Mississippi

Our trip Mississippi was a great one. The holiday got off to a bumpy start but it got squared away. My hubby had decided the night before that we were not going to go as he was under the weather but his brother convinced him the next day to come. I am so glad. The kids had a good time. Dean had played with his cousins all weekend. Had sleepovers and so much fun. It was great to have all his family around. Diana was slow to warm up to everyone but she did well. Still not her very funny self around everyone but she came to a bit. I think the funniest part was warming up to grandpa. She did not want anything to do with him until the after dinner treats came. The was then Grandpa's best friend :) I wish I would have gotten some pictures. Gil had taken all the cameras but we never got them out.
We finally got to see his parents new home. It was just perfect for them. Dean loves their Jacuzzi bath tub. I think its the biggest shower i have ever been in with the best shower head in the world. We will have to call Grannie and get the name of it.
Dean got to go four wheeling. Thank you David for Sharing. Poor david let everyone else ride his four wheeler on Thanksgiving all day and I think he got on it in the evening What a sport :).
Dean got to play awhile with his cousin Sarah to doing art work. Another favorite for him.
The Thanksgiving Feast we great. I have never had Cajun turkey before it was good, smoked turkey, the best sweet potatoes, corn bread stuffing, taters, mac and cheese, rolls, regular turkey , beans, corn, ect ect and tons of desert and the best banana pudding :)
We had a great time. We Missed our Abby there. It was our holiday with her but she was not able to make it. Second holiday in a year of ours we missed. :( .
We will have to make a special trip to grannies with her. She would have loved it.
We are great to be home after our long trip and now we rest.